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When will I figure out how to just coast on this ride of parenting instead of traveling all of the highs and lows with each childhood moment? Don’t misunderstand. Nothing is wrong. It is all in the name of parenting. But, I’ve already gone through adolescence and I don’t want to go there again! How does a parent step away from the drama, sleep without worry and parent effectively. We are expected to give support without lecturing too much or helping too much, discipline when needed even when it causes temporary discomfort for all, step in when there is trouble but not until the child has tried to take care of things solo. Where is that handy manual—telling us how and when to say the perfect thing, showing us when to expect the perfect teachable moment, and explaining in detail how not to be embarrassing to your child when they reach a certain age?
I know that I don’t have as much control or effect as I think. I know that I can lead, teach and advise but my children still need to act and make their own decisions.
So I take 5 minutes to meditate when the desire to fix takes over but the possibility of fixing doesn’t really exist anymore.
An easy meditation:
- Set your watch for 5 minutes.
- Turn off your phone. Close your door.
- Sit comfortably either on the floor with a straight back, gaze slightly down, hands on your knees or in a chair with feet flat on the floor.
- Say to yourself “Breathe-in one, breathe-out two” while breathing in and out.
- Let any thought float in but then go back to your breath. Breath in one, breath out two.
- Simply breathe. It’s that easy.